Black Lives Matter

This recently became a “buzzword” after the incident of an African American, George Floyd who was killed by a White American Police. "Black lives matter" has been on for a while and other forms of movements against killing of innocent lives and racial discrimination. While these are rightful courses and should be addressed urgently, there’s something important we need to address here, and that is to understand the ideology or mindset that this movement is passing across. Yes, we may be fighting racial discrimination and social injustice, but are we sure that that phrase –"black lives matter" would not create a wrong ideology in people’s minds? Society has incorporated into our minds what we should believe and what we should not. Why should skin colour be a determinant of someone’s destiny when they would always think they are at the mercy of other person or would always need to fight for their right? Nobody chose their race or skin colour, so why should it be a disadvantage for anyone? We are all made good and perfect and there must not be any iota of regret by anyone. We all came here on earth found ourselves with different colours and diversity, which are all part of nature. Variety and diversity are all what we see in nature. Look at plants, animals (aquatic and terrestrial), stars and other creatures, you would see so much diversity. So, while these are normal events of life that other creatures appreciate, why should human beings be the ones fighting over their own diversity? We’ve got to realize what exactly is going wrong here. Colour or no colour, life is about purpose. So, for the fact that someone is black, white or whatever colour should not make them feel they are disadvantaged or at the mercy of life. “Black lives matter” is an agenda to bring more racial discrimination and agitation. People would no longer focus on their lives and purpose. All what they would be fighting now is racial discrimination. But you don’t want to be a victim of someone’s ideology. You don't want someone to tell you what to believe and what not to believe. You want to live your own life. Someone who is being given the impression that the people of other race or skin colour don’t like him would not think good of such people. That would create more hatred and hostility. We should be more friendly and loving than ever, because there are more things to do on earth and for ourselves. And we shouldn’t allow race, skin colour, culture, tradition, religion, gender or any factor of discrimination to separate or disunite us. My regards.

What Every Man Is Looking For

Let’s talk about what every man is looking for. The most important thing every man is looking for in life is Value. And we can see that in how they talk, think and act. Value is the most important thing every man is looking for. Now what is value? Value is anything that has a worth or is precious or important to us as human beings. The worth of anything is measured by the price placed on it. For instance, if you go to the market, and you want to buy a watch. When you checked the price, it was $500. Now, knowing the price will automatically register in your mind the value of that wrist watch. Maybe before you saw the price, you thought it would be around $100. But the moment you saw the price, it just changed your mindset about it and know how valuable it is. Now, imagine if you saw another wrist watch, not far from it, almost looking the same, but it has another price, $50. Now looking at this second one, you know the value is not as high as the first. How did you know that? because of the prices placed on them. So you know the value of anything by the price placed on it. There are different things of value in life and human beings and nature placed price on them. Because everything in life is all about value, men are always in pursuit of it. And this doesn't mean women don't appreciate value. It only means they have a different perspective to it. For instance, do you know men and women value time differently? That's why you see men count the cost of everything they do with time and life. They are in pursuit of value, always. When you see a man, who wants to marry a wife, he’s not just looking for any kind of woman, there are a lot of women in the world, but he wants someone, who has got value, he wants a woman who has got character value, who has got emotional value, who has got some level of may be financial value and all that. Just any nice value that’s attracted to him, that’s appealing to him, that’s the kind of woman he wants in his life. A woman who has got mental value, a woman who has got some good qualities. So that’s what a man is looking for and say ok, I want her to be my wife. And of course, physical value, looking appealing and attractive are all part of it. So that is what a man is looking for. So a man is looking for a value in a woman before he can say I want this woman to be my wife. Now, when it comes to younger men, who want girlfriend, a lady who is so cute, nice looking and all that. She may not have so much good qualities like character, but just being a girlfriend, just looking nice, beautiful, and smart, so that he can flaunt her in the presence of his friends. That's physical value he's found in his girlfriend, and he's satisfied a lot. Every man is looking for value in life. When you see a man, who’s got project, he’s got something he’s doing, he’s got this, he’s got that, he’s got different ideas, different plans and so on, that he's working on. They are all channelled towards one thing, value. He wants to create more financial value, he wants to create more social value, he wants to create more marital value, he wants to create more spiritual value. That's men for you. Now, this is important for us to know, because then, it’s going to help us to channel our strength and resources into things that are more productive and impactful. It will also help us to know how to go about life, because when we understand what men are looking for, and we understand what women are looking for, then we will know how to relate well and do better. Check up the article on What Every Woman Is Looking For. 

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