How To Control And Channel Your Sexual Energy

I just finished a 3-day marathon fasting, It wouldn’t just solve my problem. I became so worried and frustrated. What else would I do? I wouldn’t just stop seeing girls on the street, or meeting them everywhere I go. So what’s the problem? I had issue with my control, so I fasted to see if the urge would go or at least reduce. But it became everyday battle and struggle that I had to deal with for a long time. Okay, I understand men have high sexual drive because of testosterone. Perhaps, I didn’t know the purpose. You know many of us have not understood why we experience many things we experience. We could just find some flimsy reasons to cover up our ignorance. But then, none of these things just happen on their own. There are reasons for them. An average person has sexual energy that pulls them to the opposite sex. This is not sexual lust or promiscuity. Of course, there’s a thin line between the 'natural pull' and 'sexual lust'. And that is where ‘control’ comes in. We need to learn how to control our sexual energy if we’ll not let it work against us. High sexual drive shouldn’t be a problem but rather an advantage if we know how to control and channel it. Have you done some things before because of the influence by the opposite sex? Have you had some achievements before because of the help by the opposite sex? That is channeling your sexual energy to tangible products. Sometimes, the sexual energy could come in form of affection, attraction or admiration of the opposite sex. Some people, especially men have risked their lives, integrity, money, status and everything they have to satisfy a woman. As a matter of fact, men operate at a higher level of energy when they are under the influence of a woman. This is part of the reasons why men who have women as their assistants performed better and faster than those who have men as their assistants. The same reason goes for a married man who achieved for 2 years of marriage, what he wouldn’t have achieved alone for 10 years. There are better things we can do with our sexual energy than physical expression of it as sex. I know sometimes it’s difficult to control but you can learn it. How do you control your sexual energy? By controlling your thoughts. Your mind is your most sensitive sexual organ. You can see a naked woman, if it doesn’t click in your mind, it will not trigger any erection in your penis. If you can control your mind, you can control everything about sex. What you see, what you hear, and what you know are all processed in your mind as thoughts that trigger sexual feelings in your whole body. If your mind is not engaged with something more important, sex has a way of overwhelming your mind and attenuate your control over it. But if your mind is already engaged with your goals, life assignments, projects, work, ideas, vision, dreams, and so on, then sexual energy will serve as a drive to bring those things to fruition. This happens for both men and women. And we can both control our sexual energy and channel it towards something better and life-changing. Happy Weekend.